Everyone knows this...
Women are one of the most ILLOGICAL human beings in the world.
That's true.
Ever noticed why certain women tend to remain in physically abusive relationships, year after year even when they knowingly KNOW that the relationship will never become better?
You have to get into their minds and understand exactly what makes them... women.
First of all, unlike us - as men, we normally get turned on VISUALLY.
We are VISUAL beings.
As 'hunters', we are normally attracted to things that are visually attractive and appealing.
We see an attractive woman, one that has a solid, curvy, slender looking body - and we IMMEDIATELY get turned on.
And if she's really sexy looking, chances are we'll get aroused in 2 seconds.
We'll find ourselves immediately 'wanting' her.
And we automatically think it is... love.
Some might suddenly see a hot looking woman in front of them and INSTANTLY think that it's love.
Fact is, it is NOT love at first sight.
We were merely attracted to a her PHYSICALLY and nothing else.
What if deep down that perfect body, lies a gold-digging, selfish, dumb & boring personality?
Would we really care?
No.
Because we get turned on by VISUAL things.
Guys go out expecting to get 'laid'.
Women on the other hand are human beings of EMOTION.
It's not so much about 'looks' with them.
They are more inclined to get attracted to guys with PERSONALITY. How you talk to them...
How you make them FEEL.
Ever notice that how women tend to take a LONGER time to fall in love with men?
You don't see many women around who happened to see a hot-looking guy and immediately thinks she's 'in love' with him, don't you?
She will usually need time to 'get to know him better'...
... 'get to know his friends better'...
... 'get to know his family members better'...
I'm sure you heard THAT before, right?
For them, as long as they can 'feel a connection' with the guy, THEN there might be a POSSIBILITY of her falling in love with him.
Notice how women often uses the word "feel" when their talking about love, relationships & guys.
And sure enough, it takes women a longer time to fall in love, but once they are really 'into' the guy, they will give him their ALL.
They will do WHATEVER it takes to make him happy, cook his favorite dishes, wash his clothes, clean his apartment, etc.. they will basically go to GREAT lengths to 'satis.fy' their man the moment their in love with him...
Ever noticed that?
To put in simply, if you want to be GREAT with women, you must know HOW to 'trigger' her innermost feelings of emotions whenever you're with them.
Women don't get turned on by guys JUST by looking at them. Yes, there are a few who might be like that, but in general, they will more likely be together with a guy that knows how make them FEEL great.
You must be able to 'connect' with them on their 'EMOTIONAL' level.
And If you can consistently get a woman's attention and make her FEEL pleasurable sensations whenever she's with you - you have struck GOLD!
"And how do you do this then?", you may ask...
One of the most powerful ways is by using HUMOR in a PLAYFUL, CHARMING & TEASING way...
If you can make women laugh & have fun EVERYTIME and amp those feelings of PLAYFULNESS whenever you're with her, believe me they WILL quickly develop PLEASURABLE feelings for you.
Women LOVE funny, playful guys!
Who doesn't?
For example, if a woman I've just met in a bar accidently brushes against me, I'll immediately go
"Hey, what's wrong with you?
"We just met & ALREADY you can't keep your hands to yourself?"
"What next, you'll spike my drink and seduce me to sleep with you tonight?"
I'll then slide my glass to another corner of the table.
"I'll be watching you..."
I'll then wait for her face to light up ;-)
Get what I'm trying to say here?
Be playful.
Show her a good time and tease her WHENEVER you can.
TRY it and you'll see it work WONDERS to your Game ;-)
[About the Author]: Simon Heong is the publisher of the Dating & Seduction Online Best Seller, the "Instant Attraction Program" -- the community's MOST COMPREHENSIVE program revealing the most intimate secrets on female attraction techniques and dating strategies.
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